At one point on the wedding day, The Boy decided he no longer wished to be in the wedding and got rather grumpy about it all. I wanted to get some photos of the kids and could not get him to smile. My husband decided to try to help and stood behind me and made funny faces and said silly words. Finally, The Boy cracked a grin. Later he told his dad, "I didn't like it when you said silly words, but I smiled because I didn't want to hurt your feelings."